Episode 90 - Navigating Life In the Trenches With Brothers
Loneliness is epidemic among men today. The thing is, we’re not meant to live without deep friendship. Join Jake and Brett as they get real about the strength they’ve found in their own friendship and how they have intentionally invested in it over time. They share why every man needs true brothers who will walk with them through the trenches of life, and how to go about building friendships like that.
Guiding Quote
Be a son. Love the process. Close the gap.
Key Points
Jake asks Brett a vulnerable question about their friendship
The importance of ‘checking in’ with our brothers
The power of consistency and presence (companionship) in brotherhood
Some simple things you can do to walk with someone through a hard time
Learning long-suffering and being okay with it
The difference between deep ‘3 am’ friendships and acquaintances
Why men need friends
Seasons of life that can be difficult that call for the support of good brothers: marriage challenges, parenting, work, health, mental health
The intentional process of building a deep friendship
It’s okay to be on your own but not all the time - we all need brotherhood
Discussion Questions
What stood out to you in this episode?
Do I worry that walking with a brother who is going through a difficult time will be draining? How can I show up for them in a way that simply offers my presence?
Have I ever experienced what Jake calls ‘long suffering’? Do I trust that it can make me a better man if I engage with it well?
Who are my ‘3 am friendships’? If I can’t think of anyone, who in my life would I like to intentionally go deeper with to get there?
Resources (none this week)
