Episode 53 - High Low: A Deeper Cut

Jake and Brett return to a staple in the podcast and share their highs and lows of the past few weeks. They spend some time talking about navigating marriage as well as addressing the self-life. 

Guiding Quotes

“whoever loses his life for my sake will find it." (Matthew 10:39)

Key Points

  • Jake decided to cancel this year’s Men’s Retreat

  • COVID can be a blessing to slow us down and give us room to return to what is most important

  • Brett is reading Be Devoted by Dr. Bob Schuchts with his wife and finding the discussions very rich

  • Couples can regurgitate a couple arguments over and over

  • Addressing the self-life is important

  • We can ask ourselves when faced with the self-life, “What kind of man do I want to be?”

  • When Jesus says “Unless we lose our lives, we won’t find them, he is talking about the self-life.”

  • We are called to self-gift not the self-life

  • The health above the surface of our hearts reveals the health below the surface of our hearts

Discussion Questions

  • What struck you from this episode?

  • What kind of man do you want to be?

  • Where do you notice the “self-life?”

  • How are you doing “under the surface” of your heart?

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