Episode 42 - How to do Lent

Jake and Brett continue a series on Lent and discuss the value of spiritual disciplines and how to have a fruitful Lent.

Guiding Quotes

“Our most serious failure today is the ability to provide effective, practical guidance as to how to live the life of Jesus.” (Dallas Willard)

Key Points

  • We live under a tyranny of the urgent

  • It’s amazing that the Creator of all things can speak to us personally

  • There are various reasons we struggle to trust that God speaks to us

  • There are practical things we can do that help us do to live like Jesus

  • Going through the motions of Lent isn’t the point of Lent

  • It’s possible to be disciplined and not have a change of heart

  • The goal of Lent is not to be disciplined but to be transformed and have a deepening experience of God the Father and growth in sonship

  • Prayer is where we take time and listen to the Father

  • During prayer we offer our Attention, Time, and Trust (AT&T)

  • Fasting is about making room for the Father

  • Almsgiving is about trust in the Father and being generous; being openhanded

  • Almsgiving is moving into being like the Father (blessing others)

  • Prayer - relationship with the Father, Fasting - room for the Father, Almsgiving trust in and loving like the Father

  • Fasting is about strengthening our will muscle

  • The spiritual disciplines, in the right context, are very good

  • Fasting creates space in our soul for communion with God

  • People who criticize the spiritual disciplines are often those people who don’t do them

  • “Christianity has not been tried and found wanting, it’s been found difficult and left untried.” (GK Chesterton)

  • We can try a “human experiment,” and give God an amount of time, to see how the spiritual disciplines transform us

  • “For those who say they don’t have time to pray are not short on time, they are short on love” (St. John Paul II)

  • Putting yourself in a posture of utter dependence on God is a key to the spiritual disciplines

  • We don’t know how to pray on our own

  • Prayer is “being there for love to love you” (Ruth Burrows)

  • “Certainly, as the Lord tells us, one can become a source from which rivers of living water flow. Yet to become such a source, one must constantly drink anew from the original source, which is Jesus Christ, from whose pierced heart flows the love of God.” (Pope Benedict XVI, Deus Caritas Est 7)

  • Prayer is a necessity

  • The soul of our apostolate is prayer

  • “The external aspects of fasting, though important, do not convey the full measure of the practice. Joined to the practice should be a sincere desire for inner purification, readiness to obey the divine will, and thoughtful solidarity with our brothers and sisters, especially the poor.” (St. John Paul II)

Discussion Questions

  • What struck you from this episode?

  • How is your Lent going?

  • How & where do you struggle to trust God?

  • What are some excuses you use when it comes to prayer, fasting, and almsgiving?

  • What have been some of your best times/experiences with prayer, fasting, and almsgiving?

  • What do you think and feel about about making yourself utterly dependent on God?

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